Patients if you haven't learned them yet if you are going to look for a wife several thousand miles away then get busy and learn them now it will save you heart ache and embarrassment. My girl and I have been writing for a few months now every other day I spend a lot of credits but its worth everyone. We are very much in love with each other. Suddenly she stopped writing I didn't hear from her for a couple weeks and I freaked out and thought all the worst and many of you guys my friends saw the post made I was heart broken. She finally wrote to me and I learned a great lesson Patients. She had received word of her parents who are in their 70s were very ill and needed her and as any good daughter would do she dropped everything in her life and went to them to take care of them. which has made me feel even more fortunate to have her as my future Bride. Once she was there a few days she realized I didnt know what was going on and she didnt know how to tell me because she was so far from home. She finally thanks to chnloves network of agencies was able to write to me and let me know what had happened. There is a lot more I could tell but it all comes down to if I would have had more patients things would have been fine for me too. Her parents are fine now and things between her and I are better than ever and I will be on my way to china to see her and meet her parents as soon as I can.