Im wondering if i should add in my profile that i expect the lady to move to my country when we get married. Is this too much to ask straight up??
24 Feb, 2010 12:33:14
If you say exactly what you want there should be less chance of misunderstanding.
Lebanon, United States
24 Feb, 2010 13:20:51
I think your listing expectations is important. It will eliminate some but you need to be realistic and I would think they would expect that. Just a courtesy. I know in my profile that I told them my business keeps me here although I could spend a month there in the winter time.
27 Feb, 2010 10:15:30
I think the majority of the women on this site have those expectations from the beginning. If they want the western guy most are willing to move where thier respective future husband. A Chinese culture thing, women are expected to listen to the man most of the time about matters such as this. However, that being said there are exceptions to every rule in life. Traditional Chinese women would be more than happy to accomodate they man she loves.
China Shark Mike
25 Apr, 2010 02:30:32
my view is that china ladies expect western men to be more romantic, loving, faithful and most importantly, financially stable or richer, and generous than the average china men. therefore, if you are confident of meeting the above expectations, then it will be great to state your expectations honestly and upfront. the rich are very super rich in china but the majority are not rich, and keen to live abroad due to super high prices of property in most cities. if u are a good man, u will find a good lady.
seattle, United States
08 Jul, 2012 06:16:44
You would not want to spring that on her at the last minute! haha