I am a member of chnlove.com since the end of June this year and this far it has been a very interesting journey for me.
I beleive that this site is one of the better datingsites...but no one is perfect and there are always ways to improve to get even better.
And for me as a Swede living in Sweden all this seems too be to good to be true because on a Swedish datingsites you will never ever get over 2000 admire mails during this short time that I have been a member of chnlove...maybe after 10 years or more!
I am aware of Swedens population in comparision with Chinas...it is huge but it is in anyway surprising for me.
And I have read the other topics here and one thing that is so strange is why does the ladies not give me their private mails I have got it from a few but not from the lady that I am most interested in and I have asked her at least 10 times to fix her own private mail but she avoid this and never replies to it when I send my EMF to her.
And I have asked her if I can call her on her cellular phone but I can't, she says that she not can make international calls, she must buy some special subscription to be able to make these calls and she says this will cost her a lot?
And to all of you guys at this site anyone of you that knows if China demands that the ladies must have quite a big amount of money on their bank account to be able leave China for a visit to Sweden or any other country?
I know the Swedish rules for this and it shouldn't be any great problems with this.
Looking forward to hear your opinions and tip about this.
Torquay, United Kingdom
21 Nov, 2011 09:38:16
Subscription? Load of old tosh. You are probably being taken for a ride, but not in the sense you were hoping. Forget her and move on. Loads of info about this and other aspects on this site on the Forums.
About immigration; each country has it's own rules. You need to spend some time pursuing www.sweden.gov.se
22 Nov, 2011 12:36:22
Tomas , yes you are correct , China generally requires a large amount of proof that a single lady will return if she is trying to get a visitors visa for another country unless it is with a registered travel group of tourists , things like money in the bank , a property and a very secure job which her boss would have to write a letter of approval for the holiday time and that her position is there when she returns , which is why lots of guys go to China and not very many ladies are lucky enough to travel as singles , regards Sujuan and Robert .
Torquay, United Kingdom
24 Nov, 2011 09:37:20
Here in UK there maybe strict immigration rules, but certain nationalists such as Japanese and Chinese are permitted to enter and stay if as a student at a University.
This is because they obviously do have money, and our prostitute Government welcomes these people with open arms. ha ha
09 Jan, 2012 20:20:40
Tomas, a bit late but hope you read it.
Mobile phones in China are like toys, they all have them and play continuously with them, they are all capable of international calls and text without extra cost.
My wife as she is now, sends text if unable to get on video via internet which we do most days.
The admirer mails you get are probably sent by the agencies and not the actual ladies, they get informed if you reply via mail and I believe even then many replies are from the agency and not the lady herself.
I found my wife here, and she is everything I could want, I would suggest that firstly you do not send any money to any ladies regardless of what it is supposed to be for.
As far as I am concerned Chnlove worked for me, however before I met my wife I had visited China, Changsha to be exact, and wasted a whole month as the lady was nothing like she had led me to believe.
I was very careful after that and wrote to a few ladies before settling on the one that I married.
Best advice is play it by ear and be careful, ask for a normal everyday photo as well, you might get a bit of a shock as most here are Photoshoped out of recognition.
And unfortunately be prepared for a few disappointments, I should say that I met three other married couples at various functions we went to who also met on this site and married, so it does work.
14 Jan, 2012 00:50:38
Hi guys, im a bit new to this site and was wondering, do you have to be logged in to get admirer mail?
I always seem to get them as soon as i log in.. and its always just 6 each day?? Is there a limit per day on how many you receive ?
Ive read that some people get quite a lot more per day.... its just that exactly 6 every day seems weird...
14 Jan, 2012 12:19:20
I get pretty much the same: about 6 admirer messages per day, and often they are posted after I log in and keep my profile online for a while. But I get them even if I've not logged in for a while - it just happens on a slower pace. I confess that it gave me immediately a warm and fuzzy feeling when I joined... So many beautiful ladies finally appreciate the true me and want to devote their love to me only! I thought that I had already died and entered a white man's heaven. ;D
By the way, have you guys noticed that you can write whatever on your profile and still get the same amount of admiration mail? You don't even need to have a photo... Now, that's what I'd call weird! Kind of spoils that warm and fuzzy feeling you were getting, eh? ;)
Grand Rapids, United States
01 Mar, 2012 06:17:21
I just got an admiration letter from a lady AND her daughter, never had that before! First the lady gives the usual how much she likes me and blah blah blah, then near the end, she introduces her 15 year old daughter, who in turns tells me how excited her mother is about me, then tells me how she is going abroad to study and wants to find someone for her mother so she is not lonely. This was a first for me seeing this!
London, United Kingdom
01 Mar, 2012 13:19:11
The owners of the site want to keep you spending emf and paying for chats.
The new rules means that no agency is permitted to send details of email skype qq or any other alternative contact details.
Torquay, United Kingdom
01 Mar, 2012 17:22:20
15 means coming 16. Sounds like she is maturing early.
I already stated elsewhere that my profile has no photo and info is sparse, but somehow I am god's gift to Chinese women of all ages.
I don't receive as many as what others claim, but I think the number is due to how much one is spending on EMF's. If an Agency latches on you are a soft touch, well...
Pfafftown, United States
22 Apr, 2012 21:08:27
Just a note about the Mobile phone thing. I heard the same story about not being able to make international calls without adding to her subscription. For the most part, this is true. I cannot make an international call from my Verizon Cell phone either without paying extra to have that feature added. But calling out and taking in-coming calls are two different things. I called my lady on her mobile phone from my home phone and got right thru to her. She just can't call me.